The stereotype that women are more talkative than men has been a topic of debate for years. A new study proves the stereotype to be right but only for a specific period in life.
In 2007, the results of a study conducted by the University of Arizona caused quite a stir. After analysing data from 500 participants, scientists discovered that there was no difference in the number of words spoken daily by men and women. Both spoke an average of 16,000 words each day, and thus, the myth of women talking more than men appeared to be debunked.
Researchers from the University of Arizona are disrupting the status quo. The original study relied solely on conversations among college students in Arizona, which did not accurately represent the general population. In a new study, they analysed data from 2,197 participants aged between 10 and 94 to gain a clearer understanding of the situation. The results were published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.
“There is a strong cross-cultural assumption that women talk a lot more than men,” said co-lead study author Colin Tidwell, a clinical psychology doctoral candidate at the University of Arizona. “We wanted to see whether or not this assumption holds when empirically tested.”

This analysis demonstrates that there is indeed a difference in the number of words spoken by men and women, but only between the ages of 25 and 65. During this period, it was found that women speak an average of 3,000 more words per day than men (21,845 words daily versus 18,570). However, both earlier and later in life, there was no discernible difference between the two sexes.
“Gender-linked differences in child rearing and family care are one possibility that could account for this difference,” states psychologist Matthias Mehl, senior author of the study and a professor in the U of A Department of Psychology. “If biological factors like hormones were to be the main cause, a sizeable gender difference should have also been present among emerging adults. If societal generational changes were to be the driving force, there should have been a gradually increasing gender difference among older participants. Neither, though, was the case.”
Do women really talk more than men?
In conclusion, the question of whether women talk more than men does not have a straightforward answer. While women between the ages of 25 and 64 may exhibit higher word counts than their male counterparts, this pattern is not consistent across all age groups. Factors such as caregiving responsibilities and the increasing prevalence of digital communication play crucial roles in shaping these behaviours. As we continue to navigate a rapidly changing communication landscape, it’s essential to approach such topics with nuance and an appreciation for the complexities involved.
This research underscores the need to move beyond oversimplified stereotypes and consider the multifaceted influences that shape human communication. By doing so, we can foster a more accurate and empathetic understanding of how we connect with one another across different stages of life.